Being a lady is about having the courage to step away from the crowd. Being your own person. Ruffles, lace, fishnets...they come and go in the fashion world, however a lady can get away with any style that she likes. Trendy is for the crowds. Trendy is for the follower. Do you really know your own style? As I get older, I notice that that all women are not ladies, Simple is classic. I like funky, so I go simple with my own piece of funky!